Real celebrations
Real celebration: a fortieth by candlelight
Ninety candles, one long table and a surprise string trio. How we turned a townhouse into a dinner party for thirty-two friends.
Some birthdays call for a dance floor. This one called for one long table and a room that felt like home.
Light first
We tested the candles in the empty room two weeks before, at the same hour as the dinner. It told us where to put the mirrors and where to keep the florals low.
Food as the centre
Shared plates went down the middle of the table in three waves, so guests passed dishes to each other and started talking within minutes of sitting down.
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